Listening to other people enumerate my daily schedule (work 9+ hours a day, eat dinner, shower, do homework till 1 or 2am, sleep a few hours, and repeat) sounds like they’re talking about someone else. Surely I am not the one who is foolhardy enough to think she can do this and survive to be … More “I can do anything for a year…”
When I was a teenager, I felt very isolated. Unique story, I know… Just bare with me, okay? I felt like no one understood what I was going through in large part because there’s this lie we tell kids about their youth being the best part of their lives. I thought my strife was out … More Be a listener.
…gratitude. Looking back at posts chronologically on Facebook through services like “on this day” has proven really educational. Not about the world as a whole or anything grand-scheme like that, but about myself and the growth I’ve gone through since getting it when I was seventeen. I have gone through (several) self-deprecation phases, discovered and … More The word that changed my life…
“Nooooo! Don’t do that! I hate when cute girls mess up their looks.” “You’ll have to dress more girly and learn about make up and stuff” “Everyone is going to think you’re a [lesbian]” “You can’t do that! Just… don’t.” I’m not even joking, you guys. The past couple of weeks, I have gotten all … More I am not my hair.
In my ventures, I’ve been incredibly blessed to meet and get to know some outstanding individuals, and today’s post was inspired by one of them. My friend Pachet is the type of woman every woman should have in their life- enterprising, creative, intuitive, ground-breaking, and encouraging. If you go to her blog (link at the bottom … More Get uncomfortable being “normal”
Recently, I was asked what I would say to my 15 year old self if I could go back and give her advice. I immediately came up with a few, like these gems: It is ok to not be who you want to be yet. It’s ok to grow into the image you put into … More Be afraid- And do it anyway.
When I look back at all the years of love and opening my heart I missed out on because I refused to get out of my own way, my heart breaks a little… … More This body I live in.
WOW! What a week! I have been going non-stop since Monday. I have done so many cool things, crazy things, adult-y things, and quiet things this week. Most of them revolved somehow around realizing what incredible human beings I have in my life. Some days I look around and wonder how exactly I gained the … More And in this moment… I am content.
Where a couple of short years ago there were insecurities, second-guessing, and self-deprecation, there is now honesty, forgiveness, and a demand for respect … … More It’s been a process….